Packing Up and Moving Home: What to Expect When Your College Kid Comes Back for Summer

Packing Up and Moving Home: What to Expect When Your College Kid Comes Back for Summer

The final exams are over, the dorm room is (almost) packed, and your college student is heading home for the summer. Cue the happy tears, open arms… and maybe a tiny bit of chaos! If you’re anything like me, you’re thrilled to have your child home again — but you’re also wondering where exactly you’re going to put all their “stuff,” and what life will look like under one roof after months apart.

Here’s what I’ve learned from helping my college student pack up, move home, and settle back in — all with as much laughter and grace as possible.

The Art of Packing (and the Reality Check)

If you imagine your college student neatly folding clothes and organizing boxes days before move-out, let me save you the trouble: it’s going to be a last-minute sprint.

Despite the best intentions, that “I’ll start packing early!” plan tends to dissolve under the weight of finals, social goodbyes, and a whole lot of “I’ll do it tomorrow.” Expect:

• Trash bags full of clothes (because who has time for folding?)
• A suspicious amount of half-used cleaning supplies
• An odd collection of socks, chargers, and mystery cords
• A box labeled “random” — you don’t want to open it, trust me

Mom Tip: Bring extra boxes, trash bags, a lot of cleaning wipes (I’m serious!), and plenty of snacks. Moving out is physically and emotionally exhausting, and a granola bar can sometimes work miracles.

The Great Car Puzzle

No matter how big your car is, it’s going to feel WAY too small when you start loading it. Somehow, the few items they moved into the dorm back in August have multiplied into enough to stock a small apartment.

Mom Tip: Bring bungee cords and keep a laundry basket handy for the “last five things” they’ll remember after you thought you packed everything.

Re-Entry: When Your College Kid Moves Back Home

Once the car is unpacked and you’re back home, the real adventure begins: reintegrating your independent, semi-adult child back into family life.

Here’s what to expect — and how to roll with it:

1. They’ve Changed… And So Have You

They’ve spent months living on their own schedule, managing their own meals, assignments, and laundry (well, maybe laundry). Give them some space to show off their new independence — and give yourself a pat on the back for raising someone who can stand on their own two feet.

2. The Stuff… It’s Everywhere

Suitcases, boxes, and bags have a magical way of scattering themselves all over the house. Take a deep breath. Tackle it one small area at a time. And maybe create a “college stuff” zone somewhere out of the main living space — your sanity will thank you.

3. Sleep Schedules Will Be… Different

Don’t be surprised if their internal clock is set to “night owl.” Late nights and late mornings might be the norm. It’s summer — let them rest a bit — but it’s also okay to set a few family expectations (like joining in for occasional dinners or outings).

4. You’ll See Glimpses of the Kid You Missed

The hugs. The late-night chats. The impromptu ice cream runs. They may not stay forever, but these little moments will fill your heart right back up. Soak them in.

Setting Summer Expectations (Without the Drama)

Before the lazy days of summer totally take over, it’s smart to have a quick, casual conversation about house rules and expectations — think curfews (or check-ins), chores, and communication.

Keep it simple and upbeat:

“Hey, we’re so happy you’re home! Let’s chat about a few things so we’re all on the same page.”

They’ll appreciate feeling respected as the almost-adult they’re becoming — and you’ll save yourself a lot of stress later.

Final Thoughts: Love, Grace, and a Little Bit of Flexibility

Packing up your college student and welcoming them home is a rollercoaster of emotions — pride, joy, nostalgia, and a little bit of “where did all this stuff come from?!” But underneath it all, it’s a season to savor.

The summers home won’t last forever. Before you know it, internships, jobs, or even post-grad life will carry them into their next adventure. For now, cherish the chaos, celebrate the victories (like a laundry basket that actually makes it to the laundry room!), and enjoy the gift of having your kiddo under your roof again — even if only for a little while. Welcome home, Kiddo!